I came across a chapter of her, where she talks about finding CHEAT CODE(S) that helps controlling thoughts. Why I’m curious to talk about it now, because It’s bit similar to mine. In my upcoming book “ What if You Love X and Marry Y? ” I talk about being adaptable, looking at things in different perspectives to find positivity in your thought that further lead to success.
Happiness does not happen by chance. It happens by choice. Happiness is not supposed to choose you. You must choose it. But majority of people have been chosen by happiness. They do what they don’t particularly like. Their job has come to them by default. They don’t choose their work. Rather work has chosen them. But this should not be the case with you.
What is the difference between choosing happiness and being chosen by it? It is quite simple actually.
I always say to my son who just started playing badminton competitively, “If you make the other person angry, you will win. And it works wonder for him. Angry people make mistakes and mistakes make people angry.” I cannot count the number of times I’ve seen people double fault,
What you do when you face adversity? Do you shut down? Or you just take the stride on? Well whatever the case may be, these are 5 simple habits that help overcome adversities in life.
Go to your nine-to-five job and hate it.
Quit your job and try something else.
Maybe work at a job you never imagined working at. Hate it. Fail that one too.
Fail and keep failing by society’s standards, but in my opinion, you haven’t failed once. You’ve successfully learned :
Career tests are not predictors of the future. They cannot measure how your life will grow and change. They cannot predict, for example, if you will get married or have a child. Therefore, they can often be misleading when giving information that may not be adaptable as your ideas and life changes. And online career tests are even dangerous.
Do You rely on online career test? Many people do, thinking that the illustration will satisfy their every desire. However, online career tests cannot always give you the best answer. Here is why?
Measurements give us clarity. Measurements give us a report on how we are progressing in life from time to time. They tell us that everything is in place or we need to do more. This enables us to take the right action at the right time.