I always say to my son who just started playing badminton competitively, “If you make the other person angry, you will win. And it works wonder for him. Angry people make mistakes and mistakes make people angry.” I cannot count the number of times I’ve seen people double fault,
The most important ingredient to achieve anything is to start. If you want to achieve anything you need to first start. I consider starting as the most important moment of my life. This is the moment when I actually sit down, have a blank page and start writing first few words. And then focus on the writing till I complete the task.
What you do when you face adversity? Do you shut down? Or you just take the stride on? Well whatever the case may be, these are 5 simple habits that help overcome adversities in life.
Recently I was reading a course book on how to write a Non-fiction bestseller! There I was reading how to set compelling characters! It says, that the lead (protagonist) should have lofty and selfless goal. Here I don’t mean selfless as the opposite of selfishness. It means big goals that it consume-all (life-or-death goals).
Go to your nine-to-five job and hate it.
Quit your job and try something else.
Maybe work at a job you never imagined working at. Hate it. Fail that one too.
Fail and keep failing by society’s standards, but in my opinion, you haven’t failed once. You’ve successfully learned :
Career tests are not predictors of the future. They cannot measure how your life will grow and change. They cannot predict, for example, if you will get married or have a child. Therefore, they can often be misleading when giving information that may not be adaptable as your ideas and life changes. And online career tests are even dangerous.
Why it’s easy to choose the right career than a good or excellent career?
The question is not so simple to answer. During my research for Love X Marry Y, I questioned hundreds of youngsters on the challenges in their job and career. Most of them said they wished for “a good career”. Some of them said “an excellent career”.
Measurements give us clarity. Measurements give us a report on how we are progressing in life from time to time. They tell us that everything is in place or we need to do more. This enables us to take the right action at the right time.